For the past three years, Toni has written a column on acting for the Tolucan Times in Toluca Lake, California. Always the teacher, she has answered dozens of questions from readers about everything associated with breaking into the entertainment industry. If you’re looking for honest career advice or you’d like to have your question answered by Toni, email her at attell@attell.com.

 


Dear Toni,
Almost a year ago, I made the decision to pack up my car and make my way from Missouri to California. Within the past year, I have teamed up with an agent; have been taking acting classes focusing on character development, repetition, scene study, and auditioning. I’ve just started the actual auditioning process. I have also been working on the production side, learning all I can.


What different ways can I work on becoming a member of SAG? What are some ways to stick out of the crowd (in a good way!)? Is there anything else I should do that I may have overlooked?

Genesis Mayo


Dear Genesis,
First of all, I would suggest that you start auditioning for commercials. SAG will allow you to do one commercial without being in SAG. On your second commercial, you will be considered a “must-join.” If you save your money from the first commercial, you will then have the financial ability to join SAG. Another way is to become a stuntwoman. You can make a lot of money doing stunts and it is a great way to standout positively. My last suggestion is to continue your training and don’t let yourself get bored. The big job may be right around the corner and you want to be prepared.
 

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Dear Toni,
I moved here from Dallas and I’m interested in doing film work but am not sure this is a good medium for me considering my age. I am in the 30-35 year old age range. With all the reality shows out there, is there a good chance for someone my age to get back into the business in LA? I have had a lot of training. Also, I have anxiety when I audition and am not sure what to do about it.

Nicole Vaughn

 

Dear Nicole,
You are actually in a good age range. Danny Aiello did not get started until he was over 40, and look at how successful he has become and all the varied characters he plays. Lucille Ball was in her late 30s when the I Love Lucy first aired. It is never too late.

 

I think all performers, writers, directors, producers suffer from anxiety whenever they have to produce or perform. This emotion is common in all artistic people and it is attached to ego. It is ego that gets in our way and it can make us scared and anxious. However if used properly, the ego can cause an adrenalin boost, and the result is usually terrific work. I have this saying. “If you can breathe through fear… the other side is genius!”
 

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Dear Toni,
I have done many auditions for commercials and theatricals. How many auditions does it usually take to actually get a part?

Adelaide Crockett, Age 10

 

Dear Adelaide:
“How many auditions does it usually take to get a part?” sounds like a setup to a joke. But the truth of the matter is the answer is simple…as many as it takes! I know that sounds weird to you but please do not get impatient at 10 years old and think that there is a formula: like you go to a hundred commercials and then you get the job. It is very different for each person and you just must be very patient and feel very lucky every time you are called to audition because you probably beat out a lot of other people who were not even called at all. So have fun at 10 years old, don’t stress and just know that you are a special little girl.
 

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Dear Toni,
I started to study acting about seven years ago as a teenager, but had to take a break to help out with my family’s business. I took a break for five years, but I still look the same, except that I have added tattoos. I have what they call a full sleeve on my left arm. What do you think about tattoos and do you think having these tattoos will affect my chances of getting work?

Jesse Fortney

 

Dear Jesse,
I actually do not see how the tattoos can affect your working as an actor. It seems a trend now for every young person to have a tattoo somewhere on his or her body. Having a whole arm tattooed is a little different, but I guess it expresses the artistic spirit of the person wearing it. I assume you have picked out all the symbols on your arm for various reasons. You might call yourself a storyteller. You have just told your story, not in book form or by voice, but by the pictures inked forever on your arm.


My advice to you is if you are auditioning as a conservative young man, then cover up the tattoos. If your audition is for a more artistic, “out there youth, or rebellious young man,” then wear your full sleeve for everyone to see. Just make sure you do not upstage yourself with your arm. We have a saying in the business “don’t wear lots of jewelry and big earrings if you are a woman. Do not wear outrageous colors, stripped shirts, and jerseys with words, emblems or caps backwards over your face, if you are a man”. These things draw the eye of the director and producer to the images you are wearing rather than to your face, where you want them to look.
 

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Dear Toni,
I have been working as an actor in regional and Community Theater for almost ten years. I have acted in more than 100 productions and would like to broaden into film, television and voice-over work. I am looking for direction on how to make a transition from stage work to other mediums. How can I make the best use of my stage experience as a positive asset despite my lack of film experience.

Ryan Williams
 

Dear Ryan:
You have certainly paid your dues. I have noticed that actors sometimes get put into categories. These categories range from day players to guest stars, and comics to character actors. They also include stage actors or screen actors. It is easy for actors to unconsciously put themselves into some of these categories or the business automatically labels them.

 

It sounds like you have the right training to take the next step and parlay your work to the screen. However, screen acting is not the same as stage acting. You have to remember that with stage acting, the actor is communicating with a live audience, so the actor immediately feels the energy that is passed back and forth between the actor and the audience. With film and television it is more like an electrical current between the actor and the camera unless it is a three-camera comedy that is being taped in front of a live audience.

 

With your background, I would suggest you start sending your picture and resume to sitcoms, because they are shot in front of live audiences. Soap operas would be another venue you might submit to -- they need the type of repertory acting you do, because it fits perfectly into their format. With all your experience you should be a great candidate.
 

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Dear Toni,
My son is 10 years old and has been starting to get work in commercials and TV. Our experience on sets so far has been wonderful, but I am always concerned about my son’s welfare and best interests. I don't want to be demanding and obnoxious but I'm concerned about the stories I hear about "stage moms" and certainly don't want to be in that group. What tips or suggestions do you have for parents of child actors?

Cheryl Jones
 

Dear Cheryl,
You sound like a very sensitive mother and I would say that you should never listen to what other parents say on a set. This can actually be a bit intimidating to a new mother in the business. I think it is totally proper for you to ask for things that are relevant to your son’s safety, health and comfort- this does not make you a “stage mom.” I would advise you to always escort your son to the set, set breaks and even the bathroom. This does not make you a paranoid mom--it makes you a focused mother.

 

It’s a business and you deserve to be treated with dignity and appreciated for your efforts in the development of your son’s career. To minimize any problems going forward, you should keep your son disciplined by having him attend acting classes and other industry-related activities as well as teaching him to be courteous to everyone on the set.
 

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Dear Toni,
I am an American actress, originally from Virginia and I’ve just moved to Los Angeles from London where I went to drama school. I am an American, but I speak fluent Spanish and I have perfected a charming British accent as well. How do I go about getting the best manager and agent for myself, taking into consideration, what I have to offer?

Christina Edland
 

Dear Christina,
You sound extremely talented. I admire actors who can speak different languages. I cannot imagine you having any problem with Showbiz in Hollywood. It sounds like you have the chops and the techniques necessary for the new types of movies that love to use character performers as well as leading actors – this is the category I would put you in.

 

To get a manager pick up a booklet of managers in Los Angeles from Breakdown Services or Samuel French. Send them your headshots along with a letter containing a brief description of yourself and your qualifications.

 

Once you find a good manager, let the manager find you a good agent. I have discovered that certain managers and agents have their preferences for whom they work with. If the agent and manager already have a history of working together then you have a great team.
 

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Dear Toni,
I am a twenty-one year old student at UCLA’S School of Film and Television. I am an actress and a writer currently in the process of completing my first feature length dramatic script. What is the best way for an ethnic actress to sign with a talent agency and break into dramatic acting?

Crystal Smith
 

Dear Crystal,
I tell my students from USC and UCLA all the time that whether they know it or not they are the next stars. You are in one of the top schools in the nation and many agents are on the watch for clients like you. Remember that you are special. You are trained and have been selected from many applicants just to get in to these school programs.

 

Begin to treat acting the same way you would treat starting a new business. Let the agents know that you are educated not only as an actor but as a businessperson as well. Talk to some of your teachers at UCLA and ask them for their help in introducing you to industry leaders. Your teachers are professionals already working in the business and would probably be more than happy and proud to introduce you to their colleagues. Look at the television shows you are right for and write the head of casting, or the producers. Ask if you can come on the set to watch. Let them know you are from UCLA. You will be surprised to find how well received you will be and that people want to help a woman with moxy.

 

Most of all remember that you are special. Act that way and people will respond positively to you and respect you. If you are confident, then the professionals will feel confident about taking you into their agency.
 

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Dear Toni,
I feel that in this business everyone gives me mixed messages. You are too thin, you’re too short, you’re funny but not all-American looking funny, and so on and so on. My question is “Who do I listen to?”

Sari Alan
 

Dear Sari,
When I first came to Hollywood from San Francisco, I remember performing stand-up comedy at the Comedy Store and my manager saying to me afterwards, “Don’t make your lips look so big, it’s distracting.” It is laughable now, but at the time I remember struggling to make my lips not look so big. I tell you this because this town often finds fault with the genuine part of us, the part that is often the driving force in out talent, causing us to change something, which is special and doesn’t need changing at all.

 

This doesn’t only occur with actors; I hear horror stories all the time about how a simple, beautiful movie concept gets so torn apart that what was originally written is not what appears as the final product. We have a lot of experts with a lot of ideas telling artists what works and what doesn’t. Here is my truth…do what feels right for you in your heart. Perform from your soul and have a great time doing it and don’t look back and say the “I shoulda, woulda, couldas!”

 

Know that you are special and do not let anyone take that away from you. If you let them, they will. Then you will have to wear a t-shirt that says “Generic Actress.” It may take you longer and the road may not be easy, but as my friend Ted Lange always says, “If this is your dream and you stick in there you will eventually make it.”
 

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If you’re looking for honest career advice or you’d like to have your question answered by Toni, email her at attell@attell.com.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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